karan sir,
if u dont mind please send replay .
my e mail address is [email protected]

I use to hate gays.

Until one day my mom told me my elder bro is a gay.

Life changed after that.

Homosexuality is a rare phenomenon. Karan or no karan - it can affect anyone anywhere .

I use to hate gays.

Until one day my mom told me my elder bro is a gay.

Life changed after that.

Homosexuality is a rare phenomenon. Karan or no karan - it can affect anyone anywhere .

hi karan sir
i have seen all ur films and i know u like heart touching
stories. i have a story for ur film can i send it to u . please send me ur
address to write my story to u

hi karan sir
i have seen all ur films and i know u like heart touching
stories. i have a story for ur film can i send it to u . please send me ur
address to write my story to u

I guess the author of this blog is a kinda misanthrope. He doen not like any thing in this world. he doesnot like karan johar later in his answer he does not like chat shows of star work simi grawal n all. Si basically i conclude that he doen't like ne thing in this world

I guess the author of this blog is a kinda misanthrope. He doen not like any thing in this world. he doesnot like karan johar later in his answer he does not like chat shows of star work simi grawal n all. Si basically i conclude that he doen't like ne thing in this world

Good Heavens! Get a life all of you! (1) Nobody holds a gun to your head to watch Karan's movies or talk show. Its a choice YOU make...SO! (2) There are good movies and bad movies, there are soppy talk shows and brilliant ones...Its YOUR choice again to watch whatever. (3) EVERYONE is entitled to an opinion, Sushubh is , as is everyone writing in ... so just read and take it easy folks....Interesting blog by the way..

please work with aamir khan, he is the best actor in hindi film industry right now

hi karan sir it feels great great to send message to a legend.I always watch ur movies & ur show & huge fan of u.Specialy when u chat with srk,kajol,rani.As bein ur great fan i want u to make film with kajol madam & srk sir.I m dam sure that this will be biggest block bluster because people are dying to see these two & ur direction.plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz reply me if u can.tankyou sir for giving the apportunity to send mail.plzzzzzzzzzzzzz once again reply me

hi karan sir it feels great great to send message to a legend.I always watch ur movies ur show huge fan of u.Specialy when u chat with srk,kajol,rani.As bein ur great fan i want u to make film with kajol madam srk sir.I m dam sure that this will be biggest block bluster because people are dying to see these two ur direction.plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz reply me if u can.tankyou sir for giving the apportunity to send mail.plzzzzzzzzzzzzz once again reply me

I know for a fact that Karan Johar is a brilliant person and anyone who dislikes his work is obviously jealous that they do not possess the same skills and knowlegde. I am not Indian, but I am a huge fan of Karan Johar and Yashraj films. I love Shahrukh Khan and the day that SRK retires, that's the day that I will stop watching Hindi films. It is shameful that some people of the same race will not support their own culture's achievement and excellency, yet they talk immaturely about someone else's work when they themselves cannot achieve their own success. Also for Amit Singh who made those immature remarks, you must be under 10 years old, right? It's past your bed time...boy....

hi Tuhin,
v r not talking about their heart or somthin like that ok karan is a director but he makes terrible movies and shahrukh khan is a actor but his acting is so similar in his all movies he is a hero but he is not a gud actor cause he has gud personality but he cant act like a actor amir is the best in acting ok!

karan, i like your films and Koffee wth karan. I'm working with a reputed News channel,bt in person want 2 meet u. I wish for film direction.Is it possible to meet u an intelligent person like u.Pls.answer on my ID,if wish.
thnx ratna

well i think some of us here are just talkin like we arent humans anymore? so wat if he is gay or straight? well ppl who say he is gay are also going adn watchin his movies.. so why do u bother watchin his movies if u have problem with him being gay.. in todays world no matter how much u deny gays are one of the most successful people in the world.. and mind u .. no one has seen tomorow.. and ppl who talk so big and say bad abt gays, i have just one thing to say, " mind ur own business, u will b a father someday adn if ur son turns gay u would then realise." cant we just look at him as another individual then focusing on his sexuality.. he isnt askin u to be in his bed.. so please before passin such comments... make sure u think twice.... anyways im lookin forward to the episode of karan with madhuri.... take care guys..

hai karan,
i,ve watched all ur movies;in which i think you have taken courage to take movies like kank.Eventhough it is difficult to digest such movies.i use to watch your kofee with karan i like this but why are you not calling salmankhan in ur show.each week i expect salman will be in this week but you are disappointing me each week by not inviting him to your show.and also you are close to bachan family now you will be not calling vivek if you are openhearted and generous i expect we can see vivek in your show soon;please dont be loyal only to bachan family give youngsters too chance.

well, i just want to say to those who realy dont have no life but to sit here and spend their stupid time talking about a director who actualy make great movies for you guys if not you, definetly your family, I just want to say that you all are buch of no life stupid people.... and i am ashamed that you are indian and you talk about your own kind.... very discusting... lame

hi
i really want to watch preity zinta in koffee with karan, please karan johar ,i really appreciate her work and she is very beautiful.and karan johar,you are just fantastic.i like you also very much.and yes my friends and me really liked your first film,kuch kuch hota hai to your last film, kank.good job.keep it up

thanks

hey.... everybody seems quite charged in this world...good for karan :)
well could any one of you tell me wat time this show comes in Pakistan??
i watchd it last year but this time i tried to but timing never matched..
i checked on Sundays and even Fridays....!
abt koffee wid karan, its fun, good time pass...and i found myself almost enjoying every episode.. abt his being gay or watever...is not our concern..after all wat we kno abt ppl in our family and frinds and colleague :)) u kno wat i mean.....! so y to talk abt it ...!
karan made some excellent films in past but KANK was......... naaaaaaa!!!!!
anyways, leme kno time of K with Karan ,...
thx

He is not a talented director but definitely a clever guy who knows what to sale, how to sale, and to whom to sale. At least we should appreciate that quality.

hi

hi i ilke your krrish move

hi karan your movies is 2 gud and i like your smile in your face .
anny frm pakistan .

Hi karan
YOU ARE THE BEST FILM MAKER AND IF ANY BED ACTER ROLL IN YOUR MOVIE THEN YOU HAVE TALINT YOU CHANGE HIS ACT AND PORS. SOME BODY TOLD ABOUT YOU THAT IS YOU AND SHARUK IS GAYS BUT I AM NOT REDY ABOUT THAT

bollywood means salman khan. karan if u have guts pl. do give me ur phone n e-mail

bollywood means salman khan. karan if u have guts pl. do give me ur phone n e-mail

bollywood means salman khan. karan if u have guts pl. do give me ur phone n e-mail

Dear Karan,
I'm a big fan, but im sad to say that you have missed some of our important indian all time actress. She is fabulous and is an extremly taleneted in so many ways. Dimple kapadia. She is the best actress in all time. very skillful. Please may i make a request to you, to put her on your show. =)
thanks

Dear Karan,
I'm a big fan, but im sad to say that you have missed some of our important indian all time actress. She is fabulous and is an extremly taleneted in so many ways. Dimple kapadia. She is the best actress in all time. very skillful. Please may i make a request to you, to put her on your show. =)
thanks

lol.. i agree with some of u.. Karan is an over-rated director, he is in his own 'feel good' world and the PERFECT world, and again he is gay or not.. i dont really mind, and its not like v r directly interacting with him anyways, he does have his own set of actors whom he works with, but then THAT IS HIS CHOICE!!! just like v all have our PREFERED set of friends... leave him!! and as for Koffee with karan, wel it doesnt air here in New Zealand, but i did c quite a bit in india!! i quite enjoyed it...

and ppl who are commenting on sushubu... why are u?? it is HIS OPINION!!!! and u have NO right to go against it... just like v cant CHANGE or critisize ur opinions!!

But v all have to accept, those 3 hrs which v spend in the cinemas are sometimes moments we ve looked forward to all day... sometimes all week, and for movies like Don and Dhoom2 ALL YEAR (not that karan has directed them) but still....

so guys just chil out, watch/dont watch his movies but DONT JUDGE.. and dont stereotype!!

just ROk' n ROLL!!!

ENJOY LIFE yaar...... forget all these petty things...

KARAN is an idividual, he has every right to behave how he wants to... he can sleep with million men, be gay or whatever, but there is something to him.. good or bad, but just that SOMETHING... which urges ppl to go into that MAKE BELIEF world of luxuries.. 20 bedroom houses, LAVISH lifestyles, and that OOF or WOW factor for those 3 hrs... those 2 hrs which REALLY make u feel DAMN i wish i was with them... i wish i was SRK or Preity, or even Karanfor that matter!!!!

CHILL GUYS>>> DONT JUDGE

and sushubh im glad u started this BLOG!!! its a gr8 way 4 ppl to expres themselves!! but just break ur mental barrier a LITTLE bit!!

i mean hes not THAT bad!!!

lol.. i agree with some of u.. Karan is an over-rated director, he is in his own 'feel good' world and the PERFECT world, and again he is gay or not.. i dont really mind, and its not like v r directly interacting with him anyways, he does have his own set of actors whom he works with, but then THAT IS HIS CHOICE!!! just like v all have our PREFERED set of friends... leave him!! and as for Koffee with karan, wel it doesnt air here in New Zealand, but i did c quite a bit in india!! i quite enjoyed it...

and ppl who are commenting on sushubu... why are u?? it is HIS OPINION!!!! and u have NO right to go against it... just like v cant CHANGE or critisize ur opinions!!

But v all have to accept, those 3 hrs which v spend in the cinemas are sometimes moments we ve looked forward to all day... sometimes all week, and for movies like Don and Dhoom2 ALL YEAR (not that karan has directed them) but still....

so guys just chil out, watch/dont watch his movies but DONT JUDGE.. and dont stereotype!!

just ROk' n ROLL!!!

ENJOY LIFE yaar...... forget all these petty things...

KARAN is an idividual, he has every right to behave how he wants to... he can sleep with million men, be gay or whatever, but there is something to him.. good or bad, but just that SOMETHING... which urges ppl to go into that MAKE BELIEF world of luxuries.. 20 bedroom houses, LAVISH lifestyles, and that OOF or WOW factor for those 3 hrs... those 2 hrs which REALLY make u feel DAMN i wish i was with them... i wish i was SRK or Preity, or even Karanfor that matter!!!!

CHILL GUYS DONT JUDGE

and sushubh im glad u started this BLOG!!! its a gr8 way 4 ppl to expres themselves!! but just break ur mental barrier a LITTLE bit!!

i mean hes not THAT bad!!!

you are forgetting one small thing.

as a consumer i have every right to judge his work. and in my opinion his movies suck. period.

I was... shocked ...to come across this... blog.

if you cannot encourage person (Karan Johar)who has done good things with all his hard work in life, you also have no right to pass nasty comments or degrade him.

please put your time and efforts on constructive things, rather than making a fool out of yourself.
because you are commenting on a person (KJ) whose time and efforts seem to be much more valuable than yours.

OMG, YOU SUCK, YES YOU SUCK, LIKE, TOTALLY.
everyone in this world's different, you have absolutely NO right, and i mean it, alright, to discriminate what other's think. we're human. we've got different mindsets, different ways of thinking, different feelings. no human being ever existed is IDENTICAL. everyone's DIFFERENT. so, please stop trying to convince people what YOU think is RIGHT, and what YOU like. we can't be like YOU, cause we're different. hope to see changes in your way of thinking. (:

I heard that Koffee with Karan is returning. Does anybody what time will the Koffee with Karan be on t.v and which channel?

FYI Karan is an overated director OK! He only knows how to make candy floss movies. His latest KANK was only moderately successful.
He only sits within a circle of his type of "FEEL GOOD CINEMA" and cast only his fav set of actors only.
Now if he dares venture outside this circle and explore "GOOD CINEMA" and for once in his life choose other actors and shoot inside India and not overseas than perhaps i may term him as a Director of a difference. I did think it would change with KANK but unfortunately it fell flat once again and i was mistaken! His KANK was OK but the melodrama and those Karan Johar type songs were still there and incidently chorographed by that uselsess gas bag of mouth called Farah Khan! The movie was badly directed by KAran. So many shortcomings...so much publicity on the movie and it fell flat!
About his sexuality, i do find him girlish!! Whether is he is gay or not, i do not know, although it looks like it.
Bottom line : He is simply an overated director

OKAY NOW LISTEN UP CLEARLY....

I HAVE NO IDEA WHO THE HELL U R.... I MEAN EVERYONE HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY WHAT EVER THEIR OPINION IS..... BUT BY READING YOUR OPINION ON KARAN.......... I THINK YOU ARE ONE HELL OF A RACIST. IN MY OPINION YOU HAVE SOME KIND OF PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEM AND YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH IT ASAP. I AM GUESSING YOU ARE BULLSHITTING ALL THESE STUFF BECAUSE EITHER YOU ARE GAY YOURSELF AND YOU ARE SOOOOOOO FRUSTRATED THAT YOU CAN'T HANDLE KARANS' SUCCESS. I PERSONALLY DON'T KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT KARANS' PERSONAL LIFE...... BUT I DO KNOW THAT HE IS A GOOD HUMAN BEING AND A GOOD DIRECTOR. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO CALL HIS MOVIE ALL MUSHY..... IN ORDER FOR SOMEONE TO CRITICIZE A PROFESSIONAL DIRECTOR, HE HAS TO BE A PROFESSIONAL CRITICIZER, AND SOMEONE WHO STUDIES FILM. AND BY LOOKING AT THE WAY YOU RIGHT, I CAN CLEARLY SEE THAT YOU ARE NOT A PROFESSIONAL CRITICIZER, IF YOU WERE THEN YOU ARE A HORRIBLE ONE. BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T STATE THE POINTS WHY HIS MOVIE SUCKS. IF YOU DON'T KNOW, WHICH YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT KARAN JOHAR IS ONE OF THE NOTED DIRECTOR EVER. HE MAKES SO FAR THE BEST MOVIE IN THIS WHOLE BOLLYWOOD INDUSTRY. HE IS THE ONLY DIRECTOR THAT ACTUALLY MAKES BOLLYWOOD GLOBAL WHICH HELPS INDIA GLOBAL AS WELL. AND BY THE WAY, HE IS ALSO A VERY GOOD HOST. HE DOESN'T HAVE A STRONG BOLLYWOOD ACCENT, HE KNOWS WHAT HE IS TALKING ABOUT, AND YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JUDGE THE TONE OR THE SOUNDING OF HIS VOICE. I WONDER HOW YOU SOUND LIKE SINCE YOU CALL HIM GAY. JUST FROM THE BEGGINNING, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO CALL HIM A GAY.. YOU HAVE NO PROOF TO CALL HIM BY THAT. I DON'T KNOW WHICH TIME PERIOD YOU ARE LIVING IN. BUT I CAN TEACH YOU. RIGHT NOW WE ARE IN THE MODERN WORLD, WHERE ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN. AND ESPECIALLY WHEN SOMEONE WHO IS NOBODY DECIDES TO DO A NAME CALLING WITH NO EVIDENCE FOR EXAMPLE GAY..... CAN BE SUED PERIOD. SO, I REALLY THINK YOU SHOULD GO HAVE A CHECK UP OF YOUR MENTAL STABILITY. MAY BE YOU DON'T HAVE A JOB OR ANYTHING TO DO OTHER THAN......... JUST BE BORED AND START TO DO SOME NAME CALLING. HAVE A GREAT DAY. AND DO TAKE MY ADVISE........ IT WILL HELP ONLY YOU.

i want 2 have preity zintas phonne numberplzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

-:Kabhi Alvida Na Kahna; Is it not with you? :-

-:Kabhi Alvida Na Kahna; Is it not with you? :-

A lot of hip-hop and blah blah, that’s why I am forced to write again after many days. Interestingly this time, it is not an issue like reservation or lowering value of parliamentary sessions, it is just a movie named Kabhi Alvida Na Kahana.

A lot of my friends have discussed about this movie and most of them were not satisfied with this movie, although at the same time, most of them were satisfied with Krrish, as after watching this movie you need not to think about the movie and there was no message with it, but with KANK they have the problem, because it has something, which makes them think, which makes them scared a bit.a

The allegations were like this; after introducing Valentine Day and Friendship Bands, now the party is coming to break the relations. Firstly, they were targeting youth and now they are targeting the marriages, Indian Culture and faith in personal relations. And most unfortunate is that they have a large audience and even if we condemned them very hard, they are going to make there destructive ideas to public in their ways and we are unable to anything.

Not only India but outside India, in Asia and Overseas, the comments are coming in the similar ways. In fact, I was a little scared about writing on the same as even my best friend was very angry on it although she was the greatest fan of SRK movies usually. Anyway, coming to the point, the movie, its feel and character.

The question is that what message this movie is giving to public? Is it to break their traditional relations just for the sake of their some fantasies created by such movies and literatures? Or to cheat the persons, who are very much devoted to you, and might be finding the ways to please you and you are finding the ways to come out of relations? Are they trying to give the bad image of Indian community and the new generations?

My answer is something different as usual. According to me, there was really no direct message for the mass, there was no solution but it was the presentation of situations and a raised question. Is this really far from our life? Is this really a movie for overseas mass and has no touch to our traditions? Why people are so scared that they are refusing that they even have watched the movie or watched only the first part? Why are they scaring others not to dare to watch the movie? A movie with Shahrukh, Abhishek, Priti and Rani; and ofcourse with their best acting performances and you say that the movie is the worst ever. Definitely there is something.

In almost each serial being telecasted on small screen, there are more than enough extra-marital affairs, but we knew that they have not that large audience, so we were ignoring till yet, but this time thing was scaring us.

Personally I found the movie excellent and giving the right kind of message with perfect presentation. A lot of movies have been on the same topic but in their presentations, there were some common points. They were showing the relations, in which one sides were a little wrong or just ignorant and the other side people getting into in these extra-martial affairs were feeling guilty and finally the story was ending with making them back to their original relations.

But this time, there was neither guilt feeling nor the happy (?) ending in traditional style. What the hell they are thinking to define? I am not coming to the conclusion that I have planned to write in the last part of the Article.

Ok! I am starting from the positive points of movie. It presents the best situations that you may loose your partner, even if you are always enough flexible to be changed to hold your partner tide up with you. How it could happen and why? We are watching movie and feeling that there were mistakes by Dev and Maya most of the time; they were looking out of their marriages not Rishi and Riya. But if we really think so then we will not be able to stop the things like this. It is reality and ignoring problems do not solve them. Find the solutions and think that could we do something more than that what Rishi or Riya did to save their marriages, to make their marriages succeed. Do we have no solutions really?

Dev; a person, who is highly emotional and want to be the best to help and care others and trying to spread joy and happiness all over, always smiling and making people smile, caring people even if they are just strangers. Do you know no one wants to care about others from inside; they do care for others because from somewhere inside, they need the same thing back to them. We try to be ideal to others so that may find someone, who may care for us and could feel us, when we are not saying anything and just smiling. Problem is that they attract people like Dev might have made Riya attracted towards him in his college life, which were impressed by their ways thinking that the person will take care of them. But answer me; was he looking for a person whom he could care of? There might be already many friend with whose problems he was already messing up not expecting anything back to him. Doesn’t he has the right to expect someone more caring for him, something rewarding his attitude towards life till yet?

The story started when Dev was already married from last five years. A final football match of Dev and a turning point of career for Riya. Dev missing her Riya, who I am sure was an active one in his matches in old days but not getting time now for the only visible thing that Dev likes. Riya missing her best friend, who was sure caring and encouraging in her old days for her career. Tell me who was mistaking? From these all things, most of us missed one thing, which was being felt by Dev, it was their wedding anniversary and what he got from Riya, just a last line of conversation saying “Anyway, Happy Anniversary, Dev” and then the phone was disconnected without hearing that what Dev might have planned for the day. A lot of people are making just another means of his shit. But just think that how come that man could miss the day, because when someone becomes happy then he relates it with all the good things happened at the same day. For him the moment was most precious and what he got just a casual wishing, even if she was not working just was coming after an interview and now was free and was going to pick her boy from school but the wish came in with an “Anyway” and that too was not expecting anything back to her. Was not that enough to make someone feel that she was trying to make him feel that only she cares and he forgot everything.

He gave her the biggest gift as much he was best capable to give, a five million contract, his dream, which was known by Riya too but there was no one to celebrate with him one of the best moment of his life, his anniversary and his dream day. But even this was not enough to make his feelings be cared by his love, if it was really love.

Just think about the man, who lost his leg and so career, when he was at the biggest turn of his career, a five millions contract. Do you know what that was meant to him? After that he was the leading one in his family and then he was for the first time about get the thing after which he was able to answer everyone about him and his career. Moreover after that there was a possibility to get his love back to him as probably then she will get time for him and his only child on whose birth, he was the happiest an on the earth. He was just wishing rights without caring the others as was knowing that he was already much caring. He just smiled with tears when Riya said that he hates his failure in life and almost explained everything what was in his mind with the thanks for letting him stay in her house. When he was saying that the biggest failure in that house was their own relation then it was not meant to say that this was due to Riya. When we say something with a smile on face and with only few not coming out tears in eyes, then it does mean that we are loosing hopes for anything. At that time no one could expect anything positive from that person as the one is unable to give anything to even himself. Dev was in same state, thinking a lot and reviewing a lot of things, loosing himself for making everything right according to Riya even if was at the cost of his own character which was the only ideal for him as he was even wishing to see the same character in her own son. Right then there was the last string of hope.

But ………

Maya; A girl who likes that someone make her feel that she has something, who likes that there should be someone, who may make her laugh without feeling embraced that what people will say. A girl, who used to be quiet all over and only thinking and thinking, but wont be like that all over. She just wants to live her own life as she watches in movies and novels. A girl who want to live with all the beauty of nature, want to feel each and everything that might be coming in a relationship. She is just tired of being cared and really wanted to make her life moving on her own ways. A girl, who lost her parent in her childhood and then were living with the help of Rishi and his father, started to teach little children as was thinking to be independent and as was not from any technical backgrounds because of money problems I think, so there was no other option than teaching. But she was always feeling that something is missing and she is not living a life as someone happy should live.

Three year; a total of three years were taken by her to say yes to marry Rishi. In which way she grown up, things are getting so obvious for her. Like it was looking obvious to everyone that she will marry Rishi and Rishi will propose her some day. She just hated to be so obvious but what option she was having? To refuse Rishi? Why? There was not any fault of him. Why she was not feeling that special thing for him? Everything was just like 2+2=4. She was asking for her own life, but it continued in the same way as her childhood was. She was not expected to be that much quiet; she wants to talk but feels her so constrained in everything. In straight way, she was never wishing that Rishi may fall in love with her, she was thinking to go much much away from Rishi and her father, not because she don’t like them but because she was thinking to live on her own. But she was not thinking to hurt them. It was a kind of Ehsaan feeling that was making herself away from her and she was getting inside and away from whole world, parties and friends, that’s why never tried to make friends from her side.

The best bad thing with her happened that she was not able to have child of her own. As much you will try to do not make her realize, she will find ways to feel the pain. She was wishing to be with someone, who has his own life and nature and who don’t really show her that he cares for her, just care from his inside and rest all the time, he might be behaving unserious and making her too. She just wanted to live life for world and without caring anyone. She did not like only cleaning as even Dev said her Wafadar Jamadar. But it was a way to make her busy and away of thoughts as she was always saying to herself that everything is fine. You are having a perfect loving husband, what else you need more?

Just think about the statement when she said that “Tum meri kis duniya ka hissa ho, Rishi” and he answered “Tum ghar saaf karma chahati thi”. Just think how disappointed she was as a clean house in not her priority at all, she was expecting something else which her partner may figure out on his own. Just think what she said to Dev at that raining day “Jo mujhe samajh sake, samajha sake, mere halaat pahchan sake”, everything of her was in those words. She was wishing to live an informal life, in which her partner might use abusive words about others means totally careless about her female existence and the best if he really care for her feelings from inside without expressing and always knowing when she is needing something. There was something, which was not even known to Maya herself that somehow she was now a teacher from her inside means one habitual of caring others not being cared. She was needed a careless partner not the one who care for her as according to her, she was just the perfect one to care someone, if given the chance. She was wishing to change her personality completely means wishing to be a part of the crowd but there was no way till she was with persons between whom she has grown up. I don’t know that she was right or not.

But ………

Rishi; He is really a character from every one of us, most of the viewers were having sympathy for him and sometime even I thought that one should. A boy, grown up with very much emotional, sentimental and understanding father. Someone who really know about the things and feelings. From the start of the life, he learned to take the responsibility and caring others as even having enough feeling and sense of responsibility towards him, his father was a bit away from traditional father. Rishi has seen a girl from his childhood and was always curious to know about her as much as possible but she was a mystery for him from all those years. Whenever he might have thought about love, only one name was coming in his eyes. He finally named his curiosity as the traditional one. He was thinking to care for her wife as much he could. But from the first day, she was abnormal for him, sometime he thought that he understand her, sometime, he thought he not.

When we like someone then sometime we talk with her that much which even she might not be knowing, as everything might be happening in our thoughts. We smile, laugh and cry in that world and pose our loved one as the best one doing everything, which we wish, he/ she actually should do. He was trying hard to get her and even then he was not getting her. Really, it is a troubling situation for me or anyone else, that what to do in this stage? One way is never talking to her on the same issue and always talking to her on various issues other than likeness of her and another way was to be away from her with happy smile without making her feel that she is doing something wrong to him.

But right now, even I am not sure that what was the right solution? The only mistake done by Rishi was that he was looking for the things which were just visible to him; perhaps he was not capable for looking the things in a complete perspective. He never come to understand that what exactly Maya was wishing for. He tried almost all the ways to show that he loves her but when the same words, even if they are much much true and sincere, come to someone’s way almost everyday, then they come to loose their feel and touch. There were the words, the touch but nothing was touching Maya’s heart. Although he was knowing that too and at his side, he tried his best to touch

But ………

Riya; I don’t know while presenting career oriented girls/boys, why the story writers come to be a bit rude. She started with her introduction with the words that “Meri personal life aur professional life dono alag alag hai”. Many smart and practical people will come to angry with me, if I comment something bad on her attitude. Perhaps I have something to say or I haven’t anything. She was sexy, confident and smartest or almost the best for her career. In fact, while making our career and professional works, it is obvious that we come to miss some responsibilities but there is blade edge balance between the things, don’t forget. She was just perfect for everyone except the one whom she loved most and because of her busy schedules, she never come to find the actual reasons but was just being irritated. Even if she was trying her hard but her smiles and nature which was outside was not inside her home. Yes! Dev was much more rude and irritating with her but was there no way else?

There are always two ways; one easy and one which may seem impossibly hard. Obviously, we come to choose the easy way most of the time, after failing many times from passing through the difficult way and this makes the difference between normal and great people. For her there were two ways, one way was to make her busy in a life where everyone was admiring her and the another way was trying to change the attitude of her partner, who was looking like a kind of being away from her.

She was just given up because she was not finding anything wrong from her side. She was thinking that her all best efforts are never going to make her husband realize that how much hard wok, she do to take care of the family and him, how much care she is showing to him in that way. She was thinking that when she is not only just more than average but almost the best for each one outside her home, then why everything was wrong, when she was coming back to home in every eve.. And when Dev needed her besides his all irritations, she was just giving up and was happy in making herself busy. Sure, people will have sympathy towards her and I am too.

She was even much much more reliable and honest towards the relations than all the three other characters but she was not wishful to express the same as was thinking that other side should understand, because that was the reason for which she loved Dev in the beginning as he was understanding without even hearing any words from her side. She just thought that his husband is jealous and is in complex. Yes! He was feeling complex, but she never got an effective way to remove that and even I am not sure that I could give any solution.

Her husband was just needing that sometime she may give time to him and family on the cost of career sometime. He was just some selfish for a while. He always knew that she is doing all the good things for him, but when he never expresses his other feelings, then why come he will express his admirations for her? His way was different to show his care and one of which was that five millions contract, which he come to loose unfortunately. Riya really tried hard but she was just loosing the end of string. She was a perfect one to be wife of almost anyone.

But ………

Do you know overall what the problem with everyone was? Everyone was trying to be the perfect and in relations, sometimes and in fact not sometimes, but every time, it is necessary to make the other side feel that he/she is perfect. And we do not need to show this by saying to them or caring to them but in a way, they could not realize that we were praising and admiring them. Winning someone’s heart is not so difficult and does not need a lot of literature kind of words nor the big and romantic surprises, it just need little things, which may make your breaths stopped for a while and heart beating. Understanding someone every time is never easy as human kind is always the lazy and no one wants to put his/her professional time into thinking, but do you think that it is really impossible to understand people?

Yes!! You loose yourself so many times in this battle to know someone but if you give up then you will never ever get the same thing back to you.

Above all the allegations against this movie, this is a best presentation of thoughts and situations and moreover with the best selection of culture and nature of characters. It was the first attempt to show that you may loose even if you are the best. It is the ground reality of breaking marriages in now days; never think that it is not with you.

A lot of questions and a lot of things, but note that I am not giving up. Really have a lot to say but all that will be only one side. So, need to hear from other people that where I am missing the things. See, I admit that even I could not live all the four characters, so can’t explain them completely, so yours comments are invited to make this discussion complete.

-:Kabhi Alvida Na Kahna; Is it not with you? :-

-:Kabhi Alvida Na Kahna; Is it not with you? :-

A lot of hip-hop and blah blah, that’s why I am forced to write again after many days. Interestingly this time, it is not an issue like reservation or lowering value of parliamentary sessions, it is just a movie named Kabhi Alvida Na Kahana.

A lot of my friends have discussed about this movie and most of them were not satisfied with this movie, although at the same time, most of them were satisfied with Krrish, as after watching this movie you need not to think about the movie and there was no message with it, but with KANK they have the problem, because it has something, which makes them think, which makes them scared a bit.a

The allegations were like this; after introducing Valentine Day and Friendship Bands, now the party is coming to break the relations. Firstly, they were targeting youth and now they are targeting the marriages, Indian Culture and faith in personal relations. And most unfortunate is that they have a large audience and even if we condemned them very hard, they are going to make there destructive ideas to public in their ways and we are unable to anything.

Not only India but outside India, in Asia and Overseas, the comments are coming in the similar ways. In fact, I was a little scared about writing on the same as even my best friend was very angry on it although she was the greatest fan of SRK movies usually. Anyway, coming to the point, the movie, its feel and character.

The question is that what message this movie is giving to public? Is it to break their traditional relations just for the sake of their some fantasies created by such movies and literatures? Or to cheat the persons, who are very much devoted to you, and might be finding the ways to please you and you are finding the ways to come out of relations? Are they trying to give the bad image of Indian community and the new generations?

My answer is something different as usual. According to me, there was really no direct message for the mass, there was no solution but it was the presentation of situations and a raised question. Is this really far from our life? Is this really a movie for overseas mass and has no touch to our traditions? Why people are so scared that they are refusing that they even have watched the movie or watched only the first part? Why are they scaring others not to dare to watch the movie? A movie with Shahrukh, Abhishek, Priti and Rani; and ofcourse with their best acting performances and you say that the movie is the worst ever. Definitely there is something.

In almost each serial being telecasted on small screen, there are more than enough extra-marital affairs, but we knew that they have not that large audience, so we were ignoring till yet, but this time thing was scaring us.

Personally I found the movie excellent and giving the right kind of message with perfect presentation. A lot of movies have been on the same topic but in their presentations, there were some common points. They were showing the relations, in which one sides were a little wrong or just ignorant and the other side people getting into in these extra-martial affairs were feeling guilty and finally the story was ending with making them back to their original relations.

But this time, there was neither guilt feeling nor the happy (?) ending in traditional style. What the hell they are thinking to define? I am not coming to the conclusion that I have planned to write in the last part of the Article.

Ok! I am starting from the positive points of movie. It presents the best situations that you may loose your partner, even if you are always enough flexible to be changed to hold your partner tide up with you. How it could happen and why? We are watching movie and feeling that there were mistakes by Dev and Maya most of the time; they were looking out of their marriages not Rishi and Riya. But if we really think so then we will not be able to stop the things like this. It is reality and ignoring problems do not solve them. Find the solutions and think that could we do something more than that what Rishi or Riya did to save their marriages, to make their marriages succeed. Do we have no solutions really?

Dev; a person, who is highly emotional and want to be the best to help and care others and trying to spread joy and happiness all over, always smiling and making people smile, caring people even if they are just strangers. Do you know no one wants to care about others from inside; they do care for others because from somewhere inside, they need the same thing back to them. We try to be ideal to others so that may find someone, who may care for us and could feel us, when we are not saying anything and just smiling. Problem is that they attract people like Dev might have made Riya attracted towards him in his college life, which were impressed by their ways thinking that the person will take care of them. But answer me; was he looking for a person whom he could care of? There might be already many friend with whose problems he was already messing up not expecting anything back to him. Doesn’t he has the right to expect someone more caring for him, something rewarding his attitude towards life till yet?

The story started when Dev was already married from last five years. A final football match of Dev and a turning point of career for Riya. Dev missing her Riya, who I am sure was an active one in his matches in old days but not getting time now for the only visible thing that Dev likes. Riya missing her best friend, who was sure caring and encouraging in her old days for her career. Tell me who was mistaking? From these all things, most of us missed one thing, which was being felt by Dev, it was their wedding anniversary and what he got from Riya, just a last line of conversation saying “Anyway, Happy Anniversary, Dev” and then the phone was disconnected without hearing that what Dev might have planned for the day. A lot of people are making just another means of his shit. But just think that how come that man could miss the day, because when someone becomes happy then he relates it with all the good things happened at the same day. For him the moment was most precious and what he got just a casual wishing, even if she was not working just was coming after an interview and now was free and was going to pick her boy from school but the wish came in with an “Anyway” and that too was not expecting anything back to her. Was not that enough to make someone feel that she was trying to make him feel that only she cares and he forgot everything.

He gave her the biggest gift as much he was best capable to give, a five million contract, his dream, which was known by Riya too but there was no one to celebrate with him one of the best moment of his life, his anniversary and his dream day. But even this was not enough to make his feelings be cared by his love, if it was really love.

Just think about the man, who lost his leg and so career, when he was at the biggest turn of his career, a five millions contract. Do you know what that was meant to him? After that he was the leading one in his family and then he was for the first time about get the thing after which he was able to answer everyone about him and his career. Moreover after that there was a possibility to get his love back to him as probably then she will get time for him and his only child on whose birth, he was the happiest an on the earth. He was just wishing rights without caring the others as was knowing that he was already much caring. He just smiled with tears when Riya said that he hates his failure in life and almost explained everything what was in his mind with the thanks for letting him stay in her house. When he was saying that the biggest failure in that house was their own relation then it was not meant to say that this was due to Riya. When we say something with a smile on face and with only few not coming out tears in eyes, then it does mean that we are loosing hopes for anything. At that time no one could expect anything positive from that person as the one is unable to give anything to even himself. Dev was in same state, thinking a lot and reviewing a lot of things, loosing himself for making everything right according to Riya even if was at the cost of his own character which was the only ideal for him as he was even wishing to see the same character in her own son. Right then there was the last string of hope.

But ………

Maya; A girl who likes that someone make her feel that she has something, who likes that there should be someone, who may make her laugh without feeling embraced that what people will say. A girl, who used to be quiet all over and only thinking and thinking, but wont be like that all over. She just wants to live her own life as she watches in movies and novels. A girl who want to live with all the beauty of nature, want to feel each and everything that might be coming in a relationship. She is just tired of being cared and really wanted to make her life moving on her own ways. A girl, who lost her parent in her childhood and then were living with the help of Rishi and his father, started to teach little children as was thinking to be independent and as was not from any technical backgrounds because of money problems I think, so there was no other option than teaching. But she was always feeling that something is missing and she is not living a life as someone happy should live.

Three year; a total of three years were taken by her to say yes to marry Rishi. In which way she grown up, things are getting so obvious for her. Like it was looking obvious to everyone that she will marry Rishi and Rishi will propose her some day. She just hated to be so obvious but what option she was having? To refuse Rishi? Why? There was not any fault of him. Why she was not feeling that special thing for him? Everything was just like 2+2=4. She was asking for her own life, but it continued in the same way as her childhood was. She was not expected to be that much quiet; she wants to talk but feels her so constrained in everything. In straight way, she was never wishing that Rishi may fall in love with her, she was thinking to go much much away from Rishi and her father, not because she don’t like them but because she was thinking to live on her own. But she was not thinking to hurt them. It was a kind of Ehsaan feeling that was making herself away from her and she was getting inside and away from whole world, parties and friends, that’s why never tried to make friends from her side.

The best bad thing with her happened that she was not able to have child of her own. As much you will try to do not make her realize, she will find ways to feel the pain. She was wishing to be with someone, who has his own life and nature and who don’t really show her that he cares for her, just care from his inside and rest all the time, he might be behaving unserious and making her too. She just wanted to live life for world and without caring anyone. She did not like only cleaning as even Dev said her Wafadar Jamadar. But it was a way to make her busy and away of thoughts as she was always saying to herself that everything is fine. You are having a perfect loving husband, what else you need more?

Just think about the statement when she said that “Tum meri kis duniya ka hissa ho, Rishi” and he answered “Tum ghar saaf karma chahati thi”. Just think how disappointed she was as a clean house in not her priority at all, she was expecting something else which her partner may figure out on his own. Just think what she said to Dev at that raining day “Jo mujhe samajh sake, samajha sake, mere halaat pahchan sake”, everything of her was in those words. She was wishing to live an informal life, in which her partner might use abusive words about others means totally careless about her female existence and the best if he really care for her feelings from inside without expressing and always knowing when she is needing something. There was something, which was not even known to Maya herself that somehow she was now a teacher from her inside means one habitual of caring others not being cared. She was needed a careless partner not the one who care for her as according to her, she was just the perfect one to care someone, if given the chance. She was wishing to change her personality completely means wishing to be a part of the crowd but there was no way till she was with persons between whom she has grown up. I don’t know that she was right or not.

But ………

Rishi; He is really a character from every one of us, most of the viewers were having sympathy for him and sometime even I thought that one should. A boy, grown up with very much emotional, sentimental and understanding father. Someone who really know about the things and feelings. From the start of the life, he learned to take the responsibility and caring others as even having enough feeling and sense of responsibility towards him, his father was a bit away from traditional father. Rishi has seen a girl from his childhood and was always curious to know about her as much as possible but she was a mystery for him from all those years. Whenever he might have thought about love, only one name was coming in his eyes. He finally named his curiosity as the traditional one. He was thinking to care for her wife as much he could. But from the first day, she was abnormal for him, sometime he thought that he understand her, sometime, he thought he not.

When we like someone then sometime we talk with her that much which even she might not be knowing, as everything might be happening in our thoughts. We smile, laugh and cry in that world and pose our loved one as the best one doing everything, which we wish, he/ she actually should do. He was trying hard to get her and even then he was not getting her. Really, it is a troubling situation for me or anyone else, that what to do in this stage? One way is never talking to her on the same issue and always talking to her on various issues other than likeness of her and another way was to be away from her with happy smile without making her feel that she is doing something wrong to him.

But right now, even I am not sure that what was the right solution? The only mistake done by Rishi was that he was looking for the things which were just visible to him; perhaps he was not capable for looking the things in a complete perspective. He never come to understand that what exactly Maya was wishing for. He tried almost all the ways to show that he loves her but when the same words, even if they are much much true and sincere, come to someone’s way almost everyday, then they come to loose their feel and touch. There were the words, the touch but nothing was touching Maya’s heart. Although he was knowing that too and at his side, he tried his best to touch

But ………

Riya; I don’t know while presenting career oriented girls/boys, why the story writers come to be a bit rude. She started with her introduction with the words that “Meri personal life aur professional life dono alag alag hai”. Many smart and practical people will come to angry with me, if I comment something bad on her attitude. Perhaps I have something to say or I haven’t anything. She was sexy, confident and smartest or almost the best for her career. In fact, while making our career and professional works, it is obvious that we come to miss some responsibilities but there is blade edge balance between the things, don’t forget. She was just perfect for everyone except the one whom she loved most and because of her busy schedules, she never come to find the actual reasons but was just being irritated. Even if she was trying her hard but her smiles and nature which was outside was not inside her home. Yes! Dev was much more rude and irritating with her but was there no way else?

There are always two ways; one easy and one which may seem impossibly hard. Obviously, we come to choose the easy way most of the time, after failing many times from passing through the difficult way and this makes the difference between normal and great people. For her there were two ways, one way was to make her busy in a life where everyone was admiring her and the another way was trying to change the attitude of her partner, who was looking like a kind of being away from her.

She was just given up because she was not finding anything wrong from her side. She was thinking that her all best efforts are never going to make her husband realize that how much hard wok, she do to take care of the family and him, how much care she is showing to him in that way. She was thinking that when she is not only just more than average but almost the best for each one outside her home, then why everything was wrong, when she was coming back to home in every eve.. And when Dev needed her besides his all irritations, she was just giving up and was happy in making herself busy. Sure, people will have sympathy towards her and I am too.

She was even much much more reliable and honest towards the relations than all the three other characters but she was not wishful to express the same as was thinking that other side should understand, because that was the reason for which she loved Dev in the beginning as he was understanding without even hearing any words from her side. She just thought that his husband is jealous and is in complex. Yes! He was feeling complex, but she never got an effective way to remove that and even I am not sure that I could give any solution.

Her husband was just needing that sometime she may give time to him and family on the cost of career sometime. He was just some selfish for a while. He always knew that she is doing all the good things for him, but when he never expresses his other feelings, then why come he will express his admirations for her? His way was different to show his care and one of which was that five millions contract, which he come to loose unfortunately. Riya really tried hard but she was just loosing the end of string. She was a perfect one to be wife of almost anyone.

But ………

Do you know overall what the problem with everyone was? Everyone was trying to be the perfect and in relations, sometimes and in fact not sometimes, but every time, it is necessary to make the other side feel that he/she is perfect. And we do not need to show this by saying to them or caring to them but in a way, they could not realize that we were praising and admiring them. Winning someone’s heart is not so difficult and does not need a lot of literature kind of words nor the big and romantic surprises, it just need little things, which may make your breaths stopped for a while and heart beating. Understanding someone every time is never easy as human kind is always the lazy and no one wants to put his/her professional time into thinking, but do you think that it is really impossible to understand people?

Yes!! You loose yourself so many times in this battle to know someone but if you give up then you will never ever get the same thing back to you.

Above all the allegations against this movie, this is a best presentation of thoughts and situations and moreover with the best selection of culture and nature of characters. It was the first attempt to show that you may loose even if you are the best. It is the ground reality of breaking marriages in now days; never think that it is not with you.

A lot of questions and a lot of things, but note that I am not giving up. Really have a lot to say but all that will be only one side. So, need to hear from other people that where I am missing the things. See, I admit that even I could not live all the four characters, so can’t explain them completely, so yours comments are invited to make this discussion complete.

oh so there are gay people at this site too? i didnt know. but im highly against gay people. i dont understand them. plzz kinki change yourself before ur life is ruined. im just trying to help u out here.

Karan Johar is very very GAY!.
Bieng GAY is not a problem at all
My dear Karan Ji.
I want you to come forward and tell the world how gay you are.
Dont't just try to hide in your inner self.
We the Indian Gay Community is with you. We want a star of your status to join us for fighting our rights.

Sushubh ur just jealous that Karan is an impeccable director. i dont understand why u r disciminating so much. it is wrong to be gay bcuz u should act to the gender allah gave u, not the opposite sex. but i really think that he is not gay, maybe a little feminine, but not totally gay! plzz stop ur arguing and just like karan's films. i wud'nt be calling u a loser bcuz i dont know u that much. i hope u understand!!!!

and you need to get your eyes checked out. the name is sushubh not subhash.

I totally agree with mia! "maybe all those people who think karan johar is crap and gay should keep their opinions to themselves,they obviously do not understand the hard work a director puts in a film and, if he is gay what is it to you? people like him should not be subject to discrimination just because of the way he behaves and if you dont like his films then i suggest you not to watch it because no- one is forcing you to.if you think you can direct a better movie and put up with the chaotic schedule perhaps those people can make one. personally i think those people who feel hatred towards karan i dare them to say it infront of his face,better than writing disspeakable nonsense about bollywoods most gifted director."

There are people who act gay but are not. She is exactly right. Subhash if u think ur the most intelligent guy in the world and you can spit anyting on anyone! try and make a good movie as karan. I can garantee that you have watch kuch kuch hota hai, kaal, K3g and now KANK. I can promise you. Duh, he has to spend crores to make the movie. If you make a movie that is cheap. Who would want to wach it? would u? i obviously dont think so. U need to know the fact: u dont have the ability that karan does and ur jelous. cz u fuckin suck! low life loser! :) haha

u need to get a life and talk on issues that actually have a point. U know its shocking to see someone so young at such a level of being famous and loved around the world. Get a life loser

hello is anyone there, im waiting for ur responses.

i dont think he gay. period!

i saw karan's new movie Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna, it was awesome just like his other ones. karan if ur reading this i want u to know that u are one of the best directors, u and yash ji. u both r both just so fab directors!!! i wish u best of luck in the future, plz tell me how we can contact u, plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz! by the way can anyone tell me his age??? i'll be waiting.